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Once you know the value of his girlfriend and want to establish their hierarchy, ask her what the value would be if it could choose only one. When you say that this is such joy ask for a second, third and further up the value of an idea of the appropriate hierarchies. It will look like this 1 LOVE 2 ENTERTAINMENT 3 FREEDOM 4 JOY 5 FRIENDSHIP 6 CREATIVITY 7 DEVELOPMENT In this way, you can immediately discover the hierarchy of values, and thus gain valuable knowledge about their personality. Remember, however, that to ask these questions before you make a good first contact with his girlfriend. If it does not feel safe, you do not reveal their value and will not honestly answer your questions. Therefore, when you feel not even a close enough to talk about their values should abandon their immediate discovery. You're a clever man, and instead of simply asking you to guess what the value of your girlfriend. Certainly not earn as reliable information, as in the case of a direct question, but at the beginning of such a deduction you absolutely enough. How can you do? Watch carefully to his girlfriend. See the wearer, which listens to the teams what they are interested in, which has friends. Just as Sherlock Holmes vigilant seemingly insignificant information. If you like disco, it certainly appreciates the fun and joy. If you read books on New Age and Guides of personal development is important for her development. Do not miss any evidence, because each can provide you with valuable information. In addition, any statement your girl, no matter what topic is hidden information about its values. The same event or place would be otherwise described, by someone for whom the most important thing is the spirituality and the human who values the most success. Everyone observes and describes the events through the prism of their own values. Just that you ask your girlfriend that told you about his past and discover the holiday, although part of its key values. Look at how differently they describe their holiday my four colleagues who have spent months on the Costa Brava. ogrzewanie domu | | |